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Reviews (2008)

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2008


Dear AbFabParties,We attended the New Year's Eve party at your club and it was our first time at a swingers club. I just wish to say that we both thought the venue, staff and guests were all extremely welcoming and genuinely nice, not to mention the fact that the evening was also an extremely sexual experience.Of particular note was just how comfortable we both felt and for that I would have no hesitation in recommending the club to anyone who expressed a genuine interest.

Many thanks indeed and we will certainly be attending again in the very near future... G&M

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Hi Team,
Just wanted to wish you all a Very Merry Christmas and a Fab New Year. Thanks for the great parties we have attended, don't think we have ever had a bad one. After all, the night is what you make it. We don't always go expecting something to happen, so its usually a nice suprise when something does. Love the venue, which is clean, bright and interesting. Look forward to seeing you in the new year, take care all.
Best wishes, J and M (1689 i think! ) xx

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Hi
Just wanted to say what a fantastic night we had last night . We only have experience of 3 different clubs, but we can honestly say that in our opinion AbFabs is the best so its the only one we visit now. We never fail to have a great time, and i know its been said many times before but the staff really are very friendly ,as well as the other visitors.
I'm sure you welcome ideas and comments that may help to make a great venue even better, and yes i could go on and on with a dozen different suggestions about what the place needs but that would be unfair because we are all different and like different things. So i only have one suggestion that i think the majority, if not, all female members would agree with...
Could we have some Baby-Wipes in the bathrooms please?
Great club, keep up the good work
S & F xx

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We haven't been to AbFabParties for about a year now but were finally able to go last Saturday. We always thought the venue and party were great, which is why we came back, but the improvements you've made since our last visit have made it even better.
Having more toilets is very useful as well as the extra fridge and space in the drinks area.
As always everything was clean and tidy despite the best efforts of some people who can't work out what bins are for!
The staff were helpful and friendly. We always feel very comfortable on Saturday nights at AbFab as the atmosphere is so friendly and relaxed and we'll be back as soon as we can (hopefully not another year!)
Thanks guys!
S&A

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We recently visited AbFabParties and can't wait to go back. It's a great ice breaker. We were absolutely terrified before we got there, both shaking from head to toe but were made to feel welcome by all the staff straight away....even as early as the car park! We were shown around by staff so that we didn't feel too lost and then left to wander where we pleased. There is no pressure in anyway with anything. We had a good night and are now excited about our next one at AbFabParties, thanks guys. S and T

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Hi I just wanted to say thank you for the fantastic warm welcome and lovely staff.

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Just a quick message to say that we made our first visit to AbFabs on Saturday night and had a great time. The facilities were excellent, lovely hosts, the people we met very friendly and a good time was had by all! Looking forward to our next visit already.Thanks again. M & D. C3948

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After having visited your venue on Saturday, we felt that we needed to leave some feedback. This was our first ever involvement in the swinging scene and can't thank you enough. The gentleman who showed us around put us at ease and answered any questions we had. The club was clean and well thought out. There was something for everyone whatever your taste or desires. We did not feel pressured into anything, but did end up getting slightly involved with the couple next to us in the cinema room. Enjoyed everything so much we have booked to come back on Friday - from L&S

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Hi AbFabParties - wow what a night. Nerves were soon blown away by the warm welcome we received and fantastic venue that greeted us. The pool was magical and even though it must have been -4 outside it was too inviting to turn down. The combination of the great venue and the extremely sexy atmosphere, led to a fantastic and erotic evening. We met a couple that evening who were also newbies who we really hit it off with, but when we left forgot to exchange details with. We were wondering if you would be so kind to pass our details onto them if possible. They were known as N and C from Chelmsford in Essex. Please can you pass on our message? Many thanks AbFabParties team we will come again and again! M and S

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After about a year of talking about going swinging, we eventually made it last Saturday. Spent whole day nervous, however as soon as we arrived all our fears were put to rest. We were made to feel at ease straight away by hosts and other guests. Thought the layout of everything was great and we will definitely be coming again sooner rather than later. Thanks to everyone who made it a great night.

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Hi Just like to say what a fantastic night we had on Saturday just gone. Being new to the scene we were a little nervous at first. Once inside, it's well set out and very well organised. We had a tour of the venue which made us feel at ease. Everyone was friendly and the venue had a great atmosphere. We met a sexy couple, who by chance had sexy friends arrive - need we say more!!!! it really is true time does fly when you're having fun!! Can't wait for more. Thanks, See you soon. N and L 

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Hi   Just wanted to leave feedback following our visit on Friday.   This was the first time for anything like this for my wife and I and we were extremely nervous to say the least!  The nervousness was soon diminished however, as we found your party venue extremely clean with excellent facilities, and everyone was very nice, putting us totally at ease!   We were broken in by a lovely couple, and before the night was over we both experienced plenty of different action.  We were worried that we would be hassled by single guys, but that wasn't the case at all - all singles left us alone once we declined their offers etc.  We have both said that it was the most erotic night we had ever had!  We liked it so much we have already booked our second visit for a couple of week’s time!  Can’t wait!   We were both amazed at how the quickly the evening went, and before we knew it, it was 3:15 - shame....   Thanks   J & R

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Just to say we attended last night for our first party, although there were a lot of single males there, they were respectful when told no thank you. Thanks to P for a good night. Is there any way a water machine could be placed in the stable area? We had a great time and the facilities were first class and very clean. Thanks T and L. (AbFab comment: a water fountain has now been installed in the stable-block)

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Hi Guys,   This was our first full step into the unknown !!! All we can say is we WANT more, the venue and the staff were way above our expectations and we both revelled in the atmosphere and the respect paid to us by other members.   Although we did not indulge in the full swing we enjoyed the fact that we could indulge in our own fantasies and break boundaries that neither of us thought were possible!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   Only one regret, we did not get the contact details of a couple that we both liked the look of P&D from Herts. who were concerned about our taxi turning up???? If you read this we will be back if possible on Friday 31st May.   Thanks again for a truly fantastic night. LOL  S & K 

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Hi All, Just a little note to say that in the 2 years we have been coming to AbFab we have never had a bad night.  It’s always great.  We have been to other clubs but AbFab remains our favourite. The atmosphere is always brilliant and the other couples are always smart, sexy and classy. And all the recent improvements are all good. We have recently returned from Desire in Cancun which was wonderful by the way. However, a few of their themed nights were brilliant and you may wish to try: White night, Wild and Wicked Night ( a bit S and M ish) PJ and Lingerie night Masked night (AbFab comment – we now regularly hold popular themed parties) All were excellent. Just a few things would perhaps make AbFabParties even better perhaps? An additional fridge or two? It will relieve congestion in that area, perhaps one back in the larger room  (where it used to be)? (AbFab comment – we have now added two more large drinks fridges in our meet and mingle area and one in the poolhouse changing area) Or have you considered a pay bar?  Xtasia have a pay bar which is very reasonable cost wise (approx £1.50 a drink) plus it’s nice for us not to drag around bags of booze! And if you can, tarmac the car park. (AbFab comment - we have made additional improvements to the car-park surface) Anyhow keep up the good work. It's really appreciated. C and J

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Dear AbFabParties Team   C and I were booked to attend the party yesterday, Saturday May 10th but unfortunately to some unforeseen circumstances at about 9 pm we were unable to attend and also unable to call or text to cancel as we did not have the information on us and we were far away from home. We do apologise. We were very disappointed as this was to be a last fun party we wanted to attend as C is deploying to Iraq on Monday.   We have attended 3 Parties since joining in March and we have both had a ball. We enjoyed the atmosphere, the cleanliness, the friendliness of the AbFabParties team and the calibre of people attending. We will like to congratulate the team on a job well done.   We hope to return as soon as C gets back from his duties.   Once again thanks and keep up the good job   See you all soon   C and M

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Hi All  D and D here,  Just to say a really big thank you for a great party last night, Friday.  Great people, lovely atmosphere and Mrs had her best evening ever.  Outstanding.  Also a big thank you to all the guys that helped Mrs have such a nice time. Your were all polite, friendly and made her feel very safe.  See you all again soon.

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Hi guys and gals   Just got home from your couples party, and what a night!   Met up with a couple from the last time we visited purely by chance and it turned out they were interested in us from the first time but we hadn't noticed the signals. Well all that changed tonight! We had our first full swap and what can I say? Watching my wife being pleased by another man whilst I was pleasuring his wife was fantastic. All night long we were touching, feeling and groping each other finishing the night off with a foursome in one of the chalets by the outdoor hot tub.   Other couples in the pool were floating by and hands were everywhere and at one point in the darkroom, I was kissing my wife whilst being fellated by another girl and groping a third unknown woman. FANTASTIC!!   All I will say is roll on next time! And S and J if you read this, get in touch. We wanna do it again!   M and L    

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Hello AbFabParties We wanted to let you know we are having a sexy wonderful time with you all.  We normally come to you on a Saturday night but a few weeks ago we came on a Friday and we had just as much fun.  We met a lovely couple and had lots of horny fun. We are coming again this Friday, so if you could put this message in your comments hopefully they might like to join us again. M&M

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Friday was our first visit to AbFabParties and in fact our first experience of the scene. We were quite apprehensive but the friendly staff made us feel very welcome which helped us to relax quickly. The facilities were excellent and we had great fun exploring them. We were lucky enough to meet another more experienced couple who were very supportive and gave us some great encouragement. We also shared some fun time together too. Everyone we spoke to was polite and friendly. A relaxing dip in the pool was a great end to our evening and neither of us could believe 3am had come round so quickly - where did the time go? The only thing we will probably change next time is to do the Saturday night party instead of the Friday, as we would have personally preferred less single males.   Thank you to everyone who made us feel so welcome, we hope to see you again very soon.   A & G xx *

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Hi all, Just like to say thanks for a great night last Friday. We have been to your place on two other occasions and it has been busier but wow we had loads of fun!!! Thanks to Maxine and Russ for sorting us out with transport to our hotel, we met lots of sexy single men, can’t wait to return xx S&M xx

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Hi All   Wow! What a night we had. It was our first time on Saturday and we were very pleasantly surprised. You can see you have worked very hard to get it to the first class standard it is at. The house was very clean and the staff were very helpful. Thanks to Chris who took us on the tour and puts us at ease as we were very nervous. We spoke to a lot of couples and they all were very friendly and very (normal) if that's the word I am looking for. Once again thank you for a great evening we will be back for sure.   M and T

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Last night was my first visit to AbFabParties (my first visit to any swingers club in England). As a single guy, I was a bit nervous before getting to your house, but that disappeared straight away once I stepped inside. As pretty much everyone else has said, the staff are very friendly. Come early to get a tour of the nice, big premises. I had a great night. 5 hours passed in less than 3, I'm sure! Special thanks to A&G and L for kindly and naughtily showing me what the British swinging scene is all about. You should have a warning sign saying these kinds of events may be addictive and cause silly smiles. Will I be back? Oh yeah. Soon. A xx

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Well, we came to your party on Saturday as complete newbies to the scene. One night at your humble abode had us wanting more (and more and more and more...)! We couldn't believe how comfortable and at ease we felt at AbFab and basically took to it like ducks to water! This clearly all came from our warm welcome by your friendly staff, followed by a very necessary tour (its huge!), followed by a visual feast of hot, sweaty, sexy (and friendly) couples. All finished off with a nice swim. Any couples/singles flirting with the idea of swinging, go and lose your 'S' plates at AbFabParties! It will be THE best party of your life! We didn't play with anyone but each other first time and felt no pressure to do anything but go at our own pace. This is mostly what left us wanting more! So any newbies don't be worried about any pressure to perform or join in, just enjoy a nice sauna, swim and Jacuzzi! Thanks again, we will defiantly be back soon! (actually this week)   N+N

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Hi Guys!!!!   I just wanted to drop you a note to thank you for a cracking Friday night.  I am now safely back in the Middle East and have already had confirmation of my next trip to the UK which will be last weekend in February!!  Of course I would love to come and see you all again if possible!!  I was genuinely stunned and delighted by the sincerity of the people at the party. It was relaxed, fun open and most of all honest!   The atmosphere is great, balanced and good fun. Your team are helpful engaging and certainly put everyone at ease.   Great venue, great crowd, a great night all round, thank you.   Many thanks and best wishes to all!!   S

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Dear AbFabParties,   We would just like to thank you for an absolutely brilliant evening.   After looking at your website and seeing your club in person, your website doesn't do it justice.    As first timers, we were unsure how we would feel coming to a swinging club but were quickly put at ease.  Before we knew it we were playing with each other in the cinema in full view of sometimes up to 20 people, something we would never have thought possible. Very quickly we were approached by a couple whose female offered to ....... on my wife, which she was a little taken aback by, although this is one of her fantasies, she lost her bottle and made an excuse to leave.   After half an hour she knew she had made a mistake and was determined to fulfil her bi-curious fantasies, which eventually she did, and was surprisingly satisfied, and can't wait to do it again.   Before we knew it, it was 2.30am and we couldn't drag ourselves away so we had another quickie in the chill-out lounge with 2-3 other couples doing the same thing, and probably watching us (we were watching them!) which was a real turn on.   We would highly recommend your club to anyone who is into this lifestyle. We do have a single lady friend who is also curious about the scene, we will encourage her to come with us next time.  We are looking forward to returning in the new year and trying out your Jacuzzi and pool area, next time we will make sure the clothes we wear are not so challenging to get in and out of!   The next morning, does anyone else get the feeling other people are looking at you, unaware of what you got up to last night? We do, and can't stop smiling about it, if only they knew why we were smiling!   See you all again very soon we hope.   M & L

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Hi Gang,  Just to say what a great night we both had last Friday.  I know it wasn’t mega busy (ideal for our first time at AbFabParties), but we were made really welcome.  Your security, attention to detail and the layout were all a real bonus.  We have been to several clubs in the South East and without doubt yours surpasses any that we have visited.  If anyone is reading this and wondering whether to go then wonder no more.  It really was a great experience, especially as we met a very sexy guy (who will remain nameless) and we ended up in one of the cabins by the hot tub.  WOW, Mrs Supersexual really had a great time.  Once again, thanks.  You are more than welcome to put this on your web site.  Hugs and kisses and we will definitely be back in the new year.  D and D

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Hi Guys,   We made our first visit a few weeks ago and all we can say is WOW! Your website and other guests' comments had really excited us and we were looking forward to trying this out.   I'd like to thank you for the newcomers’ tour - as this really put us at ease. All the couples on the Saturday were friendly, but not pushy. The no-pressure rule is great as it lets people develop at their own pace. The lack of pressure actually paid off because it relaxed us so much we ended up joining in more than we thought we would.   To give readers a quick summary, we had a fantastic experience in the cinema where I watched my partner indulge in some fantastic all girl action. To see 2 women orgasm by fingering and kissing each other was so hot!   After a while to recover and watch other couples we ended up in a play room where I invited 2 men to *** my partner's **** until she came, then whilst she sat on my **** a very attractive Caribbean man came in and enjoyed a long **** *** from my partner.   We then hooked up with a lovely coupler [D&L] in the dark room, before moving into a log cabin with them to enjoy each other FULLY.   By 2:30, we were tired, fully satisfied and about to leave when we saw an amazing 6-some in the chill lounge. Please pass on my thanks to the lovely lady with long black hair and even longer legs who rode a guy wildly. It was the sexiest thing I've ever seen.   Can't wait to come back.   Yours   M&C 

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We took the plunge and had our 1st ever dabble into this lifestyle on Saturday night. We didn’t really know what to expect and were pleasantly surprised by everything. The staff were professional and very helpful, the facilities were better than we anticipated and the swingers we met were great, thanks to B&K and E&J for helping us along the way, we can honestly say the my wife is no longer bi-curious! Can’t wait to cum again.   Best Regards H *

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Just to say what a great night we had as 1st timers, people were very pleasant. Had some great conversations and was left alone when ask to, however we did indulge as to say and found the whole experience very satisfying and look forward to returning sooner rather than later. Regards B&C

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Hiya all, Came along last Saturday. Our first time at any party or club. Were nervous at first but found the atmosphere so friendly and relaxed, we soon felt at ease. Met a few nice couples, spent the evening wandering round and had some fun in the cinema room. Have booked in to come again in a few weeks time - and we can't stop talking about it! Thanks for making our first visit such a good experience. Only feedback we want to give is the outside walkway and stable areas were too cold! Look forward to being back over Christmas D & e X x X (AbFabParties comment – we now provide shawls in the winter months for the ladies to use whilst walking to the stable-block which is now fully heated)

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Hi Guys,  Thanks for a great party from myself and J. Last night was our first visit, but most definitely not our last. Will be back in the New Year, have a great Christmas. Love D& J

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Hi, It was great to meet you last night and also to visit AbFabParties. To cut it short...I think the name delivers.  We felt very comfortable all night and our welcome was great and felt genuine and designed to put us at ease.  No one pestered us last night, in fact we felt quite in control. Feedback: I am not really an expert on swing clubs but as a marketing type I can't help but mouth off about any and everything so I hope you take my criticism in the spirit in which it is given to genuinely help you to succeed even more because we both loved our experience and will gladly come back for more. Website:  After viewing the website I was under the impression that the club was downmarket and may not be to our tastes. However, the reality is quite different; you seemed to have created a warmer and more exciting environment than the images on the website indicate.  It is quite possible that this may be putting other newbies like us off their first visit, in fact I very nearly turned back during the drive up to the club for this reason (of course, now I am very glad I didn't). (AbFab comment – our website is now in the process of being updated and we hope to construct a brand new site with wonderful up-to-date images very soon). Lighting:  I am not sure the lighting is quite right in all areas.  For example, at the back of the stables there was quite a lot of fun happening on the seats and 'beds' with the express intention of being open for viewing, except it was too dark for the viewer to really get engaged.  I think low, coloured (blue, for example) lighting would enhance this area as it would the bedded area opposite the 'mirror room' which had a slightly sterile feel to it and wasn't used at all from what I can gather.  Cinema:  This is a great room and we had a great time here.  My only issue was that the movies playing were not really female friendly, they were quite aggressive in tone and I am not sure they were designed primarily to encourage erotic play, it seemed they were more for shagging' and 'fucking', which in my experience is less of a turn on for girls than it is for boys.  The movies did not seem to be high quality and were slightly seedy in nature, and required a specific taste. (AbFab comment–point taken. We have added to our range of movies with this in mind. Hope you like them). Hot Tube Area:  I am sure you have thought about this but the fact that you change in the same area as the indoor hot tub I think slightly spoils the magic for this area, a separate area for changing could make this a more erotic and less functional area, but I am sure that this would be an expense, however a worthy one I expect ;-) (AbFab comment-Indoor Hot Tub now moved into the pool enclosure). After reading this email I hope you don’t think that we are griping because we most certainly aren’t and will definitely be back and will be encouraging others to come too. Kind regards M & J  

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Last night was my first visit to AbFabParties - in fact, my first experience of swingers' parties.  I was a little nervous at first, being a single woman, attending on my own, but everyone was so friendly and welcoming, and I soon found some lovely people to play with.  The night was over almost before I realised it.  I will definitely be back, to try the dungeons and the wet areas.  Thoroughly recommended! - H  

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Hi there at AbFabParties,   We were a newbie couple on Saturday night and we just wanted to say what a lovely time we had. I guess it was quieter than usual (due to the rugby ) , but we had a lovely time with another newbie couple,  M and M from Bristol.   We will be coming more often to AbFab in the future, in fact we would love you to forward this email to M & M, as we have lost their contact details and would love to meet them both again at the club in the near future, preferably in the Jacuzzi or swimming pool :-)   See you soon, LOL T  xxxx     NB  M -  I cannot wait to have some more sexy fun with you  !

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I would just like to say how brilliant AbFabParties is. Best place we've been too! 10/10!!!   The atmosphere is friendly and buzzing, We have no problems at all.   Beautiful house and very big, The swimming pool is brilliant, so many activities to do, and so many adventurous rooms.   Number 1 spot for couples on a Saturday night.   Excellent!!! Can't wait to come again this Saturday.     From   T+S  

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Our first venture into the scene and we were nervous. We drove past three times before plucking up the courage to come in - but we are so glad we did. The place is awesome and the guided tour really put us at our ease.  We found it a bit tricky to strike up conversation at first, but eventually met another "virgin" couple who were wonderful.  Within minutes we were naked in the pool, taking things slowly with our own partners, but we then progressed to swapping in the dark room -and would have gone all the way had we been able to find the condoms in the dark! Looking forward to coming back soon, and this time we will swap winkies too.  Fantastic evening - the only downside is we haven't been able to tell anyone why we keep smiling. Thanks V and D

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