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Well, perhaps surprisingly, we are all quite normal people!

Actually, we are a group of swingers who felt that there were not very many great facilities in the UK (as opposed to some great clubs and venues on the continent and in many other countries).

We wanted to create a top class environment in a house party style for like minded adults to enjoy the lifestyle.

ALL of the money coming in is spent on staff costs, running costs or ploughed back in to new facilities in the venue.

We hope you enjoy our parties...they are for you.

We hold various events at various locations in the Surrey area. Our most popular venue is a private house near Heathrow with fabulous facilities. Parties are offered to like-minded members of our internet group. Locations and details for parties and events will be emailed in response to specific party date requests.

We currently hold Couples and Single Guys parties every Friday and Couples parties every Saturday. Single Ladies are welcome on either night.

Our Monday night Bi-Nights are for bisexual and bi-curious couples, men and women.

Our Tuesday and Wednesday night Clothing Optional Spa Parties are for couples, single ladies and single guys.

Our Monday night Bi-Nights and Tuesday/Wednesday night Clothing Optional Spa Parties start at 6pm and go on until midnight. It is not necessary to book online for these.

Our Friday and Saturday night parties start at 9.30pm and go on until 3.00am and you DO have to book online for these.

We do ask any newcomers to ideally arrive before 11.00pm on Friday and Saturday nights so that we can provide you, not only with a warm welcome, but also a guided tour of the extensive facilities. Please note: these parties are not for profit. Couples, single males and single females must book online to attend the party. Entry to the party and issuing a registration card is entirely at the discretion of the party hosts and we reserve the right to refuse entry and/or cancel the security card with no explanation given. This is for everyone's safety and security and is strictly enforced.


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All guests MUST bring two forms of Identification each, one photographic and one proof of address. A registration card will then be issued for subsequent visits. You can bring along your ID on the night that you wish to join and you will be asked to fill out the security application form which is also available to download here. Acceptable IDs are driving licence, passport, utility bills, photo ID, etc.


For the security of all our party guests, we request that ID is shown upon registration, and the registration card shown on every visit. The contribution for Fridays and Saturdays is fixed. We accept payment by credit/debit cards (for which there is a small transaction charge) or cash.


Lost card charge - we do charge an admin fee of £10 to replace a lost membership card. If you do not have your membership card with you, you will be asked to provide 2 proofs of ID (something with a photo and something with your current address on) and complete a new registration form. If you do not have your membership card with you and have no ID, you will be refused entry to the party.



You may if you wish download and complete a membership registration form in advance and bring it with you. It is a Rich Text Format document which can be edited with any word-processing application. This is not vital - you can complete a form on arrival.

Membership registration form



Dress (or undress!): for the Friday and Saturday night parties and our Monday Bi-Nights, the dress code is smart casual for the men (we prefer no jeans or trainers, though SMART, DARK, NON-TORN jeans are acceptable; however, blatant trainers will not be acceptable)...and definitely no leisure wear (e.g. tracksuits, sport shirts, etc.), workwear, shorts or flip flops! We recommend a smart shirt on both nights and especially on our Saturday night parties. We request that our male guests are well-groomed, clean and to have made an effort for our party and the lovely ladies who attend. The dress code for ladies is anything they feel fabulous in. Most ladies wear something daring or revealing for the evening, but everyone who is smartly dressed is welcome. In addition to the main party areas, there is a 'wet area' where we provide the towels and a changing area for your convenience.

The dress code for our Tuesday/Wednesday night Clothing Optional Spa Party is either naturist (unclothed), towels, bathrobes or ladies can wear sexy lingerie. However, as the weather is so unpredictable we also accept smart/sexy clothing as an option.



There are various ways to reach our party venue which is located to the west of Heathrow Airport just inside the M25. Exact address via booking system!

By Car: We are within easy reach of the M40, M4 and the M3. We can be found just off Junction 14 of the M25.

By Rail: The Heathrow Express service (which takes about 15 minutes) runs from London Paddington to Heathrow. Taxi from the airport to our venue takes about 10 minutes. There is also a regular service from London Waterloo to Staines which takes approximately 30-50 minutes. Taxi from Staines station to our venue takes about 10 minutes.

By Tube: The nearest underground tube station is Heathrow Terminal 5 on the Piccadilly Line. Taxi from the tube station to our venue takes about 10 minutes. Please check with Transport for London before travelling.

By Bus: Two buses run from from Heathrow Terminal 5 and from Staines Bus Station: Click here for Route Number 442 timetable, and here for the Route Number 8 timetable.

The N9 night service bus, which runs from Heathrow Terminal 5, will take you back into London when the party ends. It runs from midnight from Terminal 5 every 15, 35 and 55 minutes past the hour until the last bus at 05.25. Please check with Transport for London before travelling.

On Foot: It takes only 20 minutes to walk from Terminal 5 to our venue.



The nearest reasonable hotel is the brand new Travelodge near TERMINAL 5. This has recently been built and has a good standard of room for a relatively low cost. Tel. 08919846353. The Arora Park Hotel in Colnbrooke is also highly recommended by some of our regular guests. For a more luxurious choice try the Runnymede Spa hotel at the next junction down on the M25 at Junction 13



Nearest cash machine is at the Shell garage in Staines or at the BP garage on the A4 (Bath Road), heading west from Heathrow.



Any items found in the venue will be kept in Lost Property for a period of one month after which, it will be disposed of.



We are happy to help if you require any further information or directions. We would prefer e-mail contact. Please note email will usually have a one-or-two day turnaround.

Phone is only available on party nights from 8.30pm onwards 07702 567205. We no longer accept email, phone or text bookings. Please use the online booking system for Friday and Saturday nights.

If you want to book a regular Friday or Saturday night party, or any of the special events listed on our Events Page, BOOK HERE.

If you are having a problem, E-MAIL HERE.


We will be sending-out regular newsletters (which you can opt-in or opt-out of receiving). The content of the newsletters is re-produced in the news archive for those of you who prefer online access. At some point in the future, these and other elements of the site will only be accessible with a password, into a members-only section of the website.


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